Much wisdom in the comments above. I wasted time for years trying to "understand" them, hoping I could then change them. Forget it. They is what they is. Enjoy.
My personal experience with marriage has been 23 years of absolute happiness/misery. For my wife and I, it took work, patience, and Jesus to seal the deal. He made the difference.
My selfishness, her craziness, both were healed by the simple truth found in Christ.
Love the one about "breasts and wheels"!

